Polygamy is practiced in all parts of Central
Asia. For centuries Islamic law dictated
how societies in this region behaved and
polygamy was a traditional part of life for
many.
Soviet authorities could not totally eradicate
the practice during the Communist era and,
since the fall of the USSR in 1991, polygamy
has crept back into practice.
"But in the case of polygamy there are
two issues: a husband must be able, physically
and materially, to satisfy all of the wives.
If he can meet both those requirements he
can have [more than one wife], but he must
be fair to all of them."
Tradition Revived
This is especially true -- though not exclusively
-- about Central Asia's rural areas. The
highest officials in Central Asia have at
one time or another come out against the
practice but the idea of legalizing polygamy
still comes up.
Most recently the issue has appeared in Kyrgyzstan,
and this time the legalization of polygamy
has a strong advocate: Justice Minister Marat
Kayipov.
"There is a definition for crime,"
he said recently. "It is something that
is dangerous for society. Is a man who has
two or three wives and takes care of their
children, dangerous? If the government would
arrest the man who takes care of those two
or three families -- this would be detrimental
to the state because then the state should
take care of those families, and the state
would have to take care of the man arrested
as well. Is that useful for society?"
But those that oppose polygamy seem to have
one strong ally, President Kurmanbek
Bakiev.
President Opposes Polygamy
Dosaly Esenaliev, the head of the president's
press service, gave Bakiev's opinion on the
issue to RFE/RL's Kyrgyz Service.
"President [Bakiev], during a meeting
in Kant, has expressed his critical opinion
of the practice of polygamy, a topic that
is being discussed in our society,"
he said. "[The president said that]
we live in the 21st century, our people are
very well educated, and intellectual. And
he added that it's sad that some people are
raising this issue, as if there are not more
important problems [to be concerned about]."
Those who support the position of Justice
Minister Kayipov on legalizing polygamy --
and that includes ombudsman Tursunbai Bakir
uulu -- point to the massive migration of
Kyrgyz men to Kazakhstan and Russia to work
as migrant laborers.
Kyrgyz officials estimate that some 800,000
men leave Kyrgyzstan for at least several
months every year to find employment outside
the country. Some do not come back to Kyrgyzstan
for years or at all. Supporters of polygamy
claim that it is the wives and families of
those men who do not return who could benefit
from polygamy.
Illegal But Practiced
Legal or not, polygamy is practiced in Central
Asia and is rarely prosecuted. Kyrgyz director
Nailya Rakhmadieva filmed a documentary --
"Elechek" -- about the sad case
of a woman whose husband took a second wife,
causing the first wife great emotional, financial,
and societal difficulties.
In Prague last year to promote her film,
Rakhmadieva said the resurgence of polygamy
in Kyrgyzstan inspired her to make the movie.
"Polygamy is becoming a typical and
widespread occurrence and society is already
accepting this as normal and for [most of]
the people it is not considered a problem,"
she said. "It is interesting that people
become accustomed to [polygamy] and don't
even try to fight against it. For that reason
the idea occurred to me because many people
I know have fallen into this situation although
they are completely modern people -- civilized
and educated people -- but for some reason
this has happened to them."
Kalyicha Omuralieva of the Kyrgyz Jeri (Kyrgyz
Land) Party says that if supporters of polygamy
are serious in their claims about polygamy's
benefits for society, then there should be
some rules that go along with its legalization.
Polygamy Positives?
Omuralieva told RFE/RL that the men calling
for the legalization of polygamy seem to
be thinking about younger women as candidates
for a second, third, or fourth wife. The
men practicing polygamy are not typically
marrying older women with children, but rather
very young women.
Omuralieva suggested that if officials are
serious in their statements that polygamy
can be beneficial for widows and help eradicate
prostitution that there should be a rule:
"first, they should marry only widows
older than 36, and those with children."
Omuralieva followed this by saying "[the
initiators of the move to legalize polygamy]
say it might reduce prostitution, so let's
write in this law that those men who will
marry a prostitute will be given a special
medal."
Galina Kulikova, the coordinator of the My
Country party, seemed concerned that the
idea of polygamy is receiving the kind of
support that it is.
Islam Allows Polygamy
"[Supporters of polygamy] were given
the chance to speak, especially our respected
Justice Minister Marat Kayipov, who is actively
fighting for polygamy in open letters,"
she said. "The ombudsman of Kyrgyzstan
has taken this [issue] up with both hands.
Our government is initiating similar legislation.
There is an attack on the gains reached in
our country since the years of the Soviet
Union."
Jamal Frontbek-kyzy is the leader of the
Kyrgyz Muslim women's NGO Mutakalim. She
said that while polygamy is permitted under
Islam, there are conditions a man must meet
if he enters into multiple marriages.
"Islam permits polygamy and it could
be allowed [in Kyrgyzstan, because] the Koran
says that a man can have two, three, or four
wives," she said. "But in the case
of polygamy there are two issues: a husband
must be able, physically and materially,
to satisfy all of the wives. If he can meet
both those requirements he can have [more
than one wife], but he must be fair to all
of them."
With the backing of people like the justice
minister and the country's ombudsman, the
debate on polygamy will probably go further
than it did when the idea was first raised.
But even if legalizing the practice is rejected
again it is becoming clear that there will
always be some in Central Asia who favor
the idea and those who will engage in the
practice whether it is legal or not.
(Venera Djumataeva from RFE/RL's Kyrgyz Service
contributed to this report.)